You’re calm, capable, and confident... Until it comes to love.
Suddenly, you’re overthinking every message, doubting your worth, or shrinking yourself to avoid being “too much.”
You’ve done the healing work. You’ve read the books. You've tried the techniques and strategies.
But something still feels off.
The real issue? It’s your self concept (the identity you unconsciously return to in relationships).
This free guide helps you start shifting that, so you can show up grounded, magnetic, and secure in love.
A quick self-audit to uncover the identity driving your relationship patterns
A visioning exercise to meet your secure, magnetic self
A daily self concept reframe to use when anxiety or spiraling hits
A next step to deepen the transformation and start manifesting healthier love
You’re successful and self-aware. but still get triggered in love
You shrink, chase, or spiral to keep connection
You want love that feels safe, mutual, and grounded
You’re ready to stop performing and start receiving love by being you
It's so nice to meet you! I'm a self concept and behavior change coach for high achievers who want to feel calm, confident, and secure in love. I help people shift their identity from anxious or over-functioning to grounded, magnetic, and worthy, so they can manifest the relationships they actually desire.
This work changed my life, and I created this kit to help you begin your own shift... Starting now.